Since our teleseminar this Thursday evening is to help you unearth ‘How You Might Be Sabotaging Your Dating Success’, there’s something timely I wanted to share with you. It has to do with the new TV show on Bravo, Mill*ionaire Matchmaker airing tonight (every Tuesday) at 10/9C
Recently I mentioned that there could be just ONE […]

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Men are attracted to beautiful women. We all know that. But what you might not know is that a man who is looking for “The One” needs her to be beautiful in more ways than simply what’s on the outside. Sure, he needs to be attracted to your appearance but what enables him to stay […]

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Love after the age of 40 is a bit of an odd thing. When we reach that milestone, and especially when our hearts have traveled those many miles to get us to where we are today, there have been plenty of bumps and bruises along the way. You would think that all those years of […]

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Happy Holidays and a grand, love-filled New Year!
It’s Kara here, in beautiful, sunny but nippy Santa Barbara. I’ve just fed my dogs and for them, all is right with the world.
Let His Gift To You Be A Gift To Him
This may seem a bit strange but the best gift you can give him is to […]

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Here’s a question that a woman sent to me with my answer following. If you find yourself doing this kind of number in your mind, maybe you can learn from this woman’s experience. Names have been changed to protect privacy:
Hi Kara
I met this guy 2 years ago through my cousin when he visited me and […]

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Opening your heart is a tricky business. When you do that you risk being hurt. But if you don’t give it a try, you’ll never be able to enjoy a deeper level of love. That kind of love requires you to be vulnerable, to take a risk. This is something I’m working on with Chris, […]

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Dating after 35 and 40 is a strange thing. It’s completely different than when we were in high school or college. Back then it was all about how cute they were, how fun, what kind of car he drove, how willing she was to “put out” and how fast the hormones were surging through our […]

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