September 30th, 2008 at 9:25pm |
If you find men not paying much attention to you in the next coming weeks, it might not be you, it might be money worries. With what is going on in the economy men tend to go inward when they are concerned about their finances or their jobs. They aren’t thinking about dating other than […]
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May 7th, 2008 at 8:58am |
The problem with our fantasy based search for love is that we’ve got such a skewed idea of what love will look and feel like, that when it does arrive, we’re likely to miss it. Yes, in the beginning, it’s fun when the sparks fly and that chemistry thing is going hot and heavy, but, […]
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April 8th, 2008 at 12:21pm |
A professor who has recently become a world-wide inspiration, was asked to give a “last lecture” at his university. But between accepting this challenge and the date set for his giving his “last lecture,” he learned that he had pancreatic cancer with only months to live. Instead of backing out of the obligation, he chose […]
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March 29th, 2008 at 9:00pm |
A lot of women I talk to want to know how to tell if a man is interested. Here’s a question I got from a woman with my response to her:
Dear Kara,
I am terrible at reading signs from men. I never seem to know if they are flirting with me or just being friendly. How […]
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March 17th, 2008 at 8:18pm |
On the View this morning, and everywhere you look, there’s advice on how to “love the planet” by going green. I heartily agree with the wisdom of doing this. And there’s lots of heartfelt pleadings to help others in need. Again, a wonderful idea.
Here’s something I want to propose: Let’s love each other, right here, […]
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March 12th, 2008 at 5:38pm |
There are some great lyrics in a Reba McEntire song, “Who I am is who I want to be.” Oh, if we could all live that way. The closer you get to that point, the more attractive you will be. The closer you can get to that point the happier, more centered, more at peace, […]
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March 10th, 2008 at 3:20pm |
I was listening to Regis and Kelly this morning while painting my toenails (women understand that you can’t paint them at night because you get sheet marks) and Jim Carrey was on, talking about his girlfriend, Jenny McCarthy. He was beaming that what worked for them is they encourage each other to be themselves. Duh… […]
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March 4th, 2008 at 11:13pm |
I’m in beautiful Tahoe skiing for a week with Chris, my fiance’. Yesterday I came down in a gondola with a woman about my age. She asked if I was married and I told her I was engaged. She congratulated me then asked me how I met him. I told her I hired a matchmaker […]
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February 24th, 2008 at 3:52pm |
A woman wrote me recently asking what she should do with her relationship. She’d been involved with a man for the past 18 months and he hasn’t shown her that he wants anything more than what they have right now. She wants more. Here’s my advice to her, which might be helpful to you:
Hi Kathy,
You […]
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February 7th, 2008 at 1:58pm |
A common mistake people unconsciously make when they go on a date is to come across as needy. Women do it more then men, but men do it too. It’s extremely unattractive energy. The reason this is so repellent is because every cell of your bodies, deep within our DNA, is set to avoid danger. […]
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