A common mistake people unconsciously make when they go on a date is to come across as needy. Women do it more then men, but men do it too. It’s extremely unattractive energy. The reason this is so repellent is because every cell of your bodies, deep within our DNA, is set to avoid danger. When someone is needy, it feels like danger to our unconscious mind so we react at an instinctual level.

A needy person requires work on our part and it feels like it won’t be an even exchange, that everything will need to go into keeping this person happy, or financially secure, or whatever it is they are searching for. They feel like they will be a burden… which is true.

Somehow, we can sense that no matter what we might do, this needy person will always stay needy. “No thanks” to that…

There are so many subtle mistakes we make when we date that it’s amazing that anyone hooks up at all. If you want to know what 21 of those things are, you should go over and take my Dating Fitness Quiz. Then, register to listen to a *free* teleseminar this evening on How You Might Be Sabotaging Your Dating Success. You can reserve your spot here.

Dating doesn’t have to be scary and stressful, it can actually be fun. Join me on the call this evening and you’ll see what I mean.

With much love,
Kara

The Heart Specialist™
DatingSuccessTechnology.com