The problem with our fantasy based search for love is that we’ve got such a skewed idea of what love will look and feel like, that when it does arrive, we’re likely to miss it. Yes, in the beginning, it’s fun when the sparks fly and that chemistry thing is going hot and heavy, but, that doesn’t always happen. Often, we meet someone who has the qualities we’re looking for, but because the “chemistry isn’t there”, or he’s too short, or he laughs too loud, we write him off without giving him an opportunity to show that he actually is Mr. Right.

Chris didn’t like the way I looked in the photo I sent to him. But from what he was learning about me in our phone conversations prior to our first date, he knew he owed it to himself to at least meet. Fortunately for us, he has had a variety of serious relationships and knew to look beneath the surface, that time is required to move through the stages that all couples must move through in order to become a committed couple, and that I had unique qualities he’d never come across before. He was intrigued, to say the least.

Even though on “paper” we weren’t each other’s idea of the perfect match, we saw enough in each other’s hearts and souls to need to spend more time exploring the possibilities. We’re grateful that we saw enough in each other to keep searching for how good it could get. And with each passing month, as we’ve gotten to know each other better, it continues to get better and better.

How will you recognize the right man for you when you meet him? Do you know what qualities you’re looking for that will give you the kind of fulfilling relationship you seek? Or are you still being run by girlhood fantasies ans surface qualities? In my course, How To Recognize The Right Man For You, I teach not only what deeper qualities you should be looking for but I also show you how to determine your Intolerable Male Qualities™ so you don’t pick the wrong man. You have to know both to get the relationship you want.

With much love,
Kara

Kara Oh
The Heart Specialist™
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